Ways to support people who are grieving
Resources for children from the Lutheran Children's Hospital
Stages of Grief
Grief and Bereavement
Mourner's Bill of Rights
Physical and Emotional Signs of Grief
Planning the Funeral
Glossary of Death-Related Terms
Helping Yourself Heal When Your Child Dies
Helping Your Child Cope with Death
Hints for Holiday Coping
A Child's Common Reactions and Feelings Toward Death
Memory-Making and Healing Activities
Telling Children about the Death of a Loved One
Should Children Attend Funerals?
Good Grief from Living Lutheran
Grief and Loss workbook from Bethesda Lutheran Communities
Grieving a significant loss
Grief and loss - how can i help
|Length of Service|
|Dress Code? (Men/Women)|
Dark & Somber / Men: Jacket & Tie
With pastor's permmission
|Source of Readings?|
Lutheran Book of Worship
|Return to Work? (Days)|
|No. of Days to Mourn?|
In the latter part of the 15th century, Martin Luther, a German, was one of many who objected to the Roman Catholic teaching that one is saved by faith and good works. In contrast, he believed in being saved by simply following Jesus. He also believed that the church should conduct services in the languages of its peoples and that the clergy should be able to marry. In response, the Church ousted Luther who then founded the Lutheran Church.
The faith spread and German and Scandinavian immigrants brought it to the US. Today, Lutherans can be described as either Evangelical Lutherans, who are more theologically liberal or a member of the Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod who are more conservative.
Lutherans regard death as a new beginning. They believe that those who have faith are assured eternal life with God. At the service, guests are ushered to seating. If arriving late, they do not enter during the procession or prayer. A pastor presides over the service and reads from the Lutheran Book of Worship or The Lutheran Hymnal of Lutheran Worship. Christians are expected to fully participate, but non-Christians need not kneel, sing or pray with them. If interested in recording the service, permission should be received from the pastor prior to the service. There are no specific rituals for observing the anniversary of the death.
There is no rule concerning when the bereaved may return to work and social activities, but visits from friends after the funeral are welcome.